The same way you would pray for a family member that has fallen ill, that's the way you should be praying for the spiritual condition of those in the body of Christ. The Apostle Paul was burdened for the Church of Ephesus and he labored in prayer for them before the throne of God. Just as Paul lived a selfless life and was more “others-focused”, we are called to live sacrificially and focus on others as well. You should always pray for yourself but don't neglect to lift up the body of Christ.